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Finding meaning:  The purpose-driven kink life

Finding meaning: The purpose-driven kink life

  • by Race Bannon
  • Sep 4, 2019

in considering 'meaning' as a core need, I've reflected on all we do and are as LGBTQ kinksters. Puncture the veneer of the superficial armor of our displayed sexual proclivities; the most satisfying are founded upon a sense of meaning.

Leather Events, September 5-22, 2019

Leather Events, September 5-22, 2019

  • by Race Bannon
  • Sep 4, 2019

Meet & greets, spanking parties, beer busts and dance nights; there's always a lot going on in the San Francisco Bay Area for leather and other kinksters.

Leather Events, August 23 — September 8, 2019

Leather Events, August 23 — September 8, 2019

  • by Race Bannon
  • Aug 20, 2019

Even after the Mr. SF Leather contest, there are plenty more events for leather and other kinksters.

Here we go again: Mr. SF Leather 2020 contest crowns kinksters

Here we go again: Mr. SF Leather 2020 contest crowns kinksters

  • by Race Bannon
  • Aug 20, 2019

The Mr. San Francisco Leather and San Francisco Bootblack 2020 contest took place this past weekend. You might be thinking "Didn't we just have this contest in March?" You would be correct. That was for the 2019 titleholders.

Leather: Collective Compersion - Expanding our erotic lexicon

Leather: Collective Compersion - Expanding our erotic lexicon

  • by Race Bannon
  • Aug 7, 2019

It seems that every day the word compersion makes its way further into daily discourse. While its usage is by no means pervasively common, at least not yet, I've noticed it being uttered verbally or in print much more often lately.

Leather Events, August 8-23, 2019

Leather Events, August 8-23, 2019

  • by Race Bannon
  • Aug 7, 2019

Even after our local street fair, Up Your Alley, there are still many kink and leather events to enjoy in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Up Your Alley weekend's packin'

Up Your Alley weekend's packin'

  • by Race Bannon
  • Jul 24, 2019

Up Your Alley weekend annually draws thousands of fans of kink, leather, and a cruisy outdoor street fair. The amount of related events has multiplied, ranging from bar nights to dance parties and sex-play events. Strap on your harness and dive in.

Leather Events, July 25 — August 10, 2019

Leather Events, July 25 — August 10, 2019

  • by Race Bannon
  • Jul 24, 2019

Welcome to the second-busiest leather-kink weekend in the Bay Area, where there's always a lot going on for leather and other kinksters.

Pride is about being authentic:  Leather contingent kinks up the annual march

Pride is about being authentic: Leather contingent kinks up the annual march

  • by Race Bannon
  • Jul 2, 2019

LGBTQ people from all walks of life, including us kinksters, walked down Market Street at Sf Pride — joyful, proud and determined to continue to stake our claim to a happy and equal life.

Leather Events, July 5-21, 2019

Leather Events, July 5-21, 2019

  • by Race Bannon
  • Jul 2, 2019

Even after Pride month, there's always a lot going on in the San Francisco Bay Area for leather and other kinksters.

Shared fantasies: Justin Lehmiller on the science of sexual desire

Shared fantasies: Justin Lehmiller on the science of sexual desire

  • by Race Bannon
  • Jun 19, 2019

In this column, I'll share some insights from Justin Lehmiller, an esteemed Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book 'Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire.'

Off to the market we go: International Mr. Leather explored

Off to the market we go: International Mr. Leather explored

  • by Race Bannon
  • Jun 5, 2019

Every year for decades men have descended on Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend for an annual leather pilgrimage otherwise known as International Mr. Leather (IML), as did I this past week.

Remembering Alan Selby - New GLBT History Museum exhibit recalls leather heyday

Remembering Alan Selby - New GLBT History Museum exhibit recalls leather heyday

  • by Race Bannon
  • May 22, 2019

A new exhibition opened at the GLBT Historical Society Museum on 18th Street, 'The Mayor of Folsom Street: The Life and Legacy of Alan Selby,' to honor his memory. A large crowd was on hand to welcome this exhibition.

Sex is a smorgasbord

Sex is a smorgasbord

  • by Race Bannon
  • May 9, 2019

I've noticed how remarkably precise and specific some people have become with their stated sexual identities and options. Those people should teach a class titled How to Turn Off a Sexual Partner in 60 Seconds or Less.