One of the best things about being young (and hunky, tattooed, hot , and full of juices and strength) is you have the nerve to take life by the balls. Dylan James is one such stud. The Nob Hill Theatre is finally giving this relatively new yet prolifically-performing hunk the chance to strut, signify and sex you up this weekend.
With his co-star, Brandon Wilde (himself, no slouch in the looks department), I predict that the stage will reach critical meltdown. Dylan spoke about his hopes and dreams for The Bay Area Reporter's readers. Here's how it went.
Are you aware of the Nob Hill Theatre's legendary history?
Oh, my God! Yes, I'm aware of the history of Nob Hill! I've been following and tagging them on Twitter for the past two years, trying to get their attention. I've talked to so many of my friends in the industry, and they say that they have an amazing time every time they are there.
To what are you most looking forward, in your NHT debut performances?
I'm a people person. That's one of the reasons I got into porn, to meet new people. I'm really excited just to meet people and talk to them. I'm also quite the show-off when I get up on stage.
What is the most sensual or arousing aspect of performing live?
I think the most arousing part is that you are so vulnerable up there. It's just you, no clothes, nothing to hide behind. Just you, letting it all hang out.
Describe your fantasy live experience.
My fantasy live experience would have to be one that the audience was just so into it and everybody started joining in.
Where did you grow up and how did your upbringing affect your view of your sexuality?
I grew up in a very, very conservative town, so small that everyone knows everyone. It wasn't until about four years ago that I really started to not care what other people think anymore and just do what made me feel good.
Reportedly, you're very shy. How do you overcome your shyness to perform in porn, live and filmed?
Oh, my God, I'm so shy! (Laughs) I call it 'The Dylan James Mindset' when I'm onstage or on-camera. I transform into someone who just wants to be the cockiest, baddest ass-fucker on the set/stage. Alhough, I think my shyness keeps me grounded.
What first drew you to the adult industry?
Actually, the traveling and meeting new people drew me to work in the industry.
What scene has stretched your sexual limits, and what have you done onscreen that you never thought you would?
Every scene seems to bring something else out in my sexual limits! I never thought I'd be licking a guy's feet, or licking armpits, but, now that I've done these things in a scene, I actually get really into it now.
How has your career evolved your private sexuality?
Just like the previous question, I never would have thought I'd be doing some of the things that turn me on the most now. I tend to be more of the aggressor, more in the dominant role. But with the right person, I love to be submissive and totally give in.
With whom are you most looking forward to filming a scene, and what would you do with them?
You know, I've really been blessed with my past scene partners, and my list of people I want to work with in the future is huge!
Have you ever fallen for a scene partner?
Yes, I've most certainly fallen for a scene partner before. On porn shoots, you are usually on a location for a few days, and people tend to find someone they get along with and stick with them. Then, they shoot together and have amazing sex. (Laughs) I won't say who, but I've definitely fallen for my scene partners.
Congratulations on your 2017 Grabby Award (Best Duo, Damon Heart & , Barebackula, Lucas Entertainment)! What was it like to win?
I honestly am still in shock that we won. I mean, I knew it was an amazing scene, and Damon Heart is a killer model, but we were going up against so many other amazing models!
The proliferation of bareback porn is sometimes blamed for the surge in STD (syphilis, chlamydia, etc.) rates among gay and bisexual men who irresponsibly use Truvada. What is your opinion, and what, if any, pushback have you received for barebacking on film?
Having sex bareback is such an intimate thing to me. I think there's nothing more sensual than being inside another person. If that's what I think is hot and what I fantasize about, that's most certainly the kind of porn I want to be in. Yes, there are people who use Truvada irresponsibly. But in the end, I think Truvada is a life-saving medication, and does far more good than it does harm.
How do you think porn will evolve, during the Trump administration?
(Laughs) Oh, geez! Trump.... Trump cannot do anything to porn. I believe porn will always be around.
What are your ultimate goals in porn?
Call me lame, but I actually don't have a set goal in porn! I really do just enjoy having sex with hot guys and meeting new people.
Your website has many beautiful images and links to your current work. Some porn stars use their sites to, eventually, launch their own studios. What are your ultimate goals with yours?
My website is just a place where fans go to see my work. I've thought about a site of my own, and been approached to start a site. But I think it would take the fun out of porn. I work a 40-hour-a-week job, and then get away to shoot sex. I don't want to be doing it as a job, if that makes sense.
You're a model/brand ambassador for Cellblock 13 fetish and jock gear What is it about that line that you love? How and when did you begin your relationship with the company?
Cellblock is amazing! I love their gear, because it's so manly. It gives off the rugged feel that I hope I give off, too. I first met Timoteo (owner/CEO) two years ago before Hustlaball in Las Vegas. I contacted him for some gear to wear, and he instantly set up a photo shoot. I had a blast with him, and can't wait to work more with him in the future.
What's your favorite Cellblock 13 item, and what does fetish/jock wear do for you, in general?
I love their camo gear! The camo harness and camo jock are definitely my favorite. Fetish gear just makes you feel rough and hot. It sort of transforms you.
You have many beautiful tattoos. What do they mean to you?
Yes, I have a couple of tattoos! (Laughs) Actually, I have a lot of Dark Disney stuff on me. The Nightmare Before Christmas is one of my favorite movies, and it's on my neck. Other than that, I just think of something and get it. I don't think about it much! Maybe, that's bad.
You're openly bisexual. How has your sexuality been embraced (or not) by the LGBTQ community, personally and professionally? How do you think it should be embraced?
Hmmm, that's a hard one, honestly. Well, when I first started doing porn, and told people that I am bisexual, I got a lot of slack for it. People said there was no way a person could like both females and males. But, to me, a sexy person is a sexy person. And to be brutally honest, I'm an ass guy! (Laughs) No matter if it's on a girl or a guy, I want in it! Now, it seems like the LGBT community, along with the rest of the world, is really starting to become more open to change and realizing you don't have to label yourself. You can like whomever you want and be whoever you want, as long as you're happy.
Dylan James and Brandon Wilde perform at the Kingdom of Sodom sex party, Thursday July 6, 10:30pm. James performs solo shows (8pm) and sex shows (10pm with Wilde) July 7 & 8. $25. The Nob Hill Theatre, 729 Bush St. at Powell. 397-6758. www.thenobhilltheatre.com
To see Cornelius Washington' erotic fetish photography, visit: www.cuirphoto.com