Bi-national same-sex couples fight for children's citizenship

  • by Heather Cassell
  • Wednesday January 24, 2018
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A Los Angeles bi-national gay couple are suing the U.S. State Department for denying one of their young twin sons citizenship.

They are one of two bi-national couples who filed separate cases against the department January 22, claiming discrimination against same-sex bi-national families.

The couples, Andrew and Elad Dvash-Banks, and Allison Blixt and Stephania Zaccari, claim the department isn't treating same-sex couples equally as heterosexual bi-national couples with children.

By not recognizing their marriages and children's U.S. citizenship, the department is violating the Constitution and Congress' intent behind the Immigration and Naturalization Service's policy regarding children of bi-national couples to "make it easier - not harder - for families of citizens and non-citizens to stay together," according to the claims filed by the families' attorneys at Immigration Equality and Sullivan and Cromwell, LLP.

"The State Department is refusing to acknowledge the citizenship of children whose parents are same-sex married couples. This policy is not only illegal, it is unconstitutional," Aaron C. Morris, executive director of Immigration Equality, said in a news release Monday. "This action by the State Department disenfranchises children born to bi-national same-sex parents and places an undue burden on their families."

Ethan Dvash-Banks, who is 16 months old, was denied U.S. citizenship while his twin brother, Aiden Dvash-Banks, was granted citizenship.

Aiden was given U.S. citizenship at birth because he was genetically connected to his American father, Andrew Dvash-Banks, a 37-year-old travel manager who is a Los Angeles native.

Ethan is biologically related to Andrew Dvash-Banks' husband, Elad Dvash-Banks, 32, an Israeli citizen who is a development manager for a Jewish organization in Los Angeles.

The family moved to California last year to be closer to Andrew Dvash-Banks' family.

Elad Dvash-Banks is currently residing in California on a family green card sponsored by his husband. He entered the U.S. through a tourist visa that is now expired.

The State Department's decision not to grant Ethan U.S. citizenship means that the nearly 2-year-old child could be deported to Canada, where he was born, or to Israel where he has relatives.

"Ethan doesn't have a legal status right now. We have to find a way to work around it until it's resolved," said Elad Dvash-Banks.

The couple are fighting for their son and their family to stay in California.

"I have a responsibility as a parent to protect my child, to defend my child, stand up for my child, and we've been wronged," Andrew Dvash-Banks told the Bay Area Reporter during a phone interview with the couple Monday.

"We are trying to get what's rightfully his," Elad Dvash-Banks added.

The situation is causing anxiety and sadness for their family.

"My mom is devastated, [she] is beside herself that this is happening to her grandson and that her twin grandsons are being treated differently," said Andrew Dvash-Banks.

The family can't travel outside of the country until Ethan's U.S. citizenship is resolved, they said. It's a pressing concern for Andrew and Elad Dvash-Banks, whose large family in Israel includes the children's elderly great-grandparents. They only saw the twins as infants in Israel before the Dvash-Banks family moved back to the states. Elad Dvash-Banks' parents visited their grandchildren after they were born in Canada, he said.

The couple canceled their family's trip in December due to Ethan's citizenship status.

"Our family is being torn apart," said Elad Dvash-Banks, who fears that if they do travel outside of the U.S. that Ethan will not be allowed back into the country. "We don't know when it's going to be resolved."

Indignity and absurdity

Early in their relationships, the two couples realized that due to the Defense of Marriage Act, which was struck down by the U.S. Supreme Court in 2013, the American partner couldn't sponsor their foreign partner and live in the states.

Andrew Dvash-Banks met Elad Dvash-Banks while he was studying in Israel.

The two women met while Zaccari was on vacation in New York.

Both couples decided to temporarily begin their lives together in host countries that would accept them. For the men that was Canada. For Blixt, who is from New York, and Zaccari, who is from Rome, it was England.

Both couples planned to eventually move their families back to the U.S., they told reporters during a news conference Monday.

Blixt and Zaccari still live in London with their two sons, Lucas, who wasn't granted U.S. citizenship due to Zaccari giving birth to him, and his younger brother, Massi, a U.S. citizen at birth due to being carried by Blixt.

The couples described their humiliating experiences at the U.S. consulates in Toronto and London when they were applying for their children's citizenships.

"The questions that we were asked were extremely personal and invasive," Elad Dvash-Banks told the B.A.R.

"Both consulate officials and customers [were] staring at us," said Andrew Dvash-Banks. "[They] were intrigued to get the answers to these questions."

"When we were told that we were going to be required to do a DNA test to prove my genetic connection, I said, 'We'll refuse.' They said, 'Well then, we will deny both your children citizenship,'" Andrew Dvash-Banks said the official told him.

Elad Dvash-Banks challenged the consulate officer, but he was told it was "her discretion whether to ask or not to ask," he said.

"The exception is when a consular officer sees a heterosexual couple and they have both their names on their kid's birth certificates, no one would ever ask them if they are genetically yours," and grant them U.S. citizenship, he said.

The couple never planned to reveal their children's genetic connections to them, they said. Ultimately, the couple was forced to submit a DNA test to the consulate.

Blixt and Zaccari echoed the men's experience. They were told in writing that Lucas was being classified as being born "out of wedlock" and denied citizenship. Massi was given U.S. citizenship at birth.

Both families' children were born while the parents were legally married in Canada and Britain.

"We just feel that we were treated differently. We feel that we are discriminated against because we're a same-sex couple," said Andrew Dvash-Banks.

Challenging the State Department

The couples want to change the centuries-old requirement to have a biological claim for citizenship. Since 1790, 14 years after the founding of the nation, citizenship of a child has been established by blood or genetic relationship to an American citizen, according to the State Department's Foreign Affairs Manual. The manual has been updated to include policies that cover reproductive technologies abroad. The burden of proof is upon the individual claiming U.S. citizenship.

A birth certificate and the parents' marriage certificate as supporting evidence to claim citizenship isn't enough for the department.

The INS regulations haven't been revised since 1952 and officials continue to refer to terms "parent," "person," "mother," "father," and "out of wedlock," in sections 301 and 309 to define children born in wedlock and out of wedlock.

Kevin Brosnahan, press officer at the State Department wouldn't respond to questions about the department's recognition of same-sex marriage and parentage abroad or classification of children's birth.

"We do not comment on pending litigation," he told the B.A.R.

Immigration Equality's Morris disagrees with the State Department, and believes that the Supreme Court trumps the department's citizenship policies when it comes to children of American same-sex parents born abroad.

"The Supreme Court has made clear that the Constitution requires that same-sex marriages receive the same legal effects and respect as opposite-sex marriages," he said in the complaint.

The two families are fighting for themselves and other bi-national couples who are starting to come forward and challenge the government.

"We may be some of the first, but we're not going to be the last," said Andrew Dvash-Banks. "It's not just for my family and my son. It's about doing what's right, it's for my community and for everybody who could potentially be affected by this."

To read the Dvash-Banks and the Blixt and Zaccari family's complaints, visit and - .WmjAVpM-fVo.

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