Even in between holidays, there's always a lot going on in the San Francisco Bay Area for leather and other kinksters.
Thu 5
SubMission: Cocktails & Comedy @ The Armory Club
Weekly stand-up comedy show in the basement of the SF Armory Club; grab a craft cocktail from the bar upstairs and prepare for a night of laughter with the right amount of kink. Doors open at 6:30. $15, 1799 Mission St., Shows start at 7pm and 9pm (downstairs not wheelchair accessible). www.armoryclub.com
Fri 6
Beards & Booze @ The Edge
This weekly happy hour event is for bearded guys and the beard fetishists who like them. 4149 18th St., 5pm. www.edgesf.com
Br�t SF — Extreme Xmas @ Halcyon SF
One of the Extreme Xmas Weekend SF events, Br�t and Brian Kent Productions join forces to bring you a sexy spot to scope the perfect hunting grounds of a dark seedy dance floor, amazing NYC underground house music, and hot man-meat for your holiday pleasure. DJs Peter Napoli and Dan Darlington provide the sexy dirty beats. $35-$40 or as part of Extreme Xmas weekend pass $80-$129. 314 11th St. 10pm-4am. https://extremexmassf.com/
Ms. SF Eagle Leather 2020 Contest @ SF Eagle
SF Eagle and staff are excited to announce the inaugural Ms. SF Eagle Leather Contest. Interested parties are encouraged to apply to complete (deadline is December 6). The winner will go on to compete for Ms. San Francisco Leather 2020 in February. 398 12th St., 6:30pm-8pm. www.sf-eagle.com
Queer/Leather Happy Hour@ SF Eagle
Join queers for drinks at the happy hour event that happens every first Friday of the month. 398 12th St., 6-9pm. www.sf-eagle.com
The 7-Year Stank @ Powerhouse
Seven years of ripe patrons, filthy sounds, and sweaty encounters. Leave your pits intact. Leave the deodorant at home. Ripe pit contest after midnight. $5. 1347 Folsom St. 10pm-2am. www.powerhousebar.com
Sober Kink Together @ Castro Country Club
Officially a CMA meeting, but open to all Anonymous 12-step Fellowship members, 4058 18th St. 9:30pm. www.castrocountryclub.org
SubMission: Cocktails & Comedy @ The Armory Club
Weekly stand-up comedy show in the basement of the SF Armory Club; grab a craft cocktail from the bar upstairs and prepare for a night of laughter with the right amount of kink. Doors open at 6:30. $15, 1799 Mission St., Shows start at 7pm and 9pm (downstairs not wheelchair accessible). www.armoryclub.com
Sat 7
GPS: Imagina @ 550 Barneveld
One of the Extreme Xmas Weekend SF events; Paul Nicholls and Justin David in association with Ky Martinez and Brian Kent present this big gay dance party making its San Francisco debut. Music by DJs Mauro Mozart and Renato Cecin and The GPS Dancers and Over the Top Shows with production by JVR. $49-$69 or as part of Extreme Xmas weekend pass $80-$129. 550 Barneveld. 10pm-4am. https://extremexmassf.com/
Kink 101: Welcome to Wicked Grounds @ Wicked Grounds
Brand new to kink, or to the San Francisco kink scene? Want to learn more about local BDSM play and education? Or perhaps you just want to know what the heck happens at a kink cafe. Attend this quick orientation to the local kink scene and Wicked Grounds. This session is perfect for folks who are making their first brave steps into the San Francisco kink scene. Topics: BDSM negotiation; dating while kinky; San Francisco kink culture; finding the best kink classes; going from newbie to insider, the magic of volunteering; venues and organizations; and anything else you care to ask. $15-$35. 289 8th St. 12pm-2pm. www.wickedgrounds.com
Nocturnal Extreme @ Halcyon SF
One of the Extreme Xmas Weekend SF events; starts late Saturday/early Sunday. See Sunday December 8 entries for more details. $30-$40 or as part of Extreme Xmas weekend pass $80-$129. 314 11th St. 3:30am-9:30am. https://extremexmassf.com/
Prime — Naughty or Nice @ Club Six
One of the Extreme Xmas Weekend SF events; the dance event for men in their prime features DJs Jesus Pelayo from Madrid and Neon the Glowgobear from Atlanta. Hot gogo studs in their prime work it for you. Clothes check available. $25-$35 or as part of Extreme Xmas weekend pass $80-$129. 60 6th St. 10pm-4am. https://extremexmassf.com/
Sun 8
Extreme Holiday Tea @ DNA Lounge
One of the Extreme Xmas Weekend SF events; local promoters Brian Kent Productions, TrophyDad and Ky Martinez Productions join forces to bring you this weekend closing tea dance. DJ/Producers Tony Moran and Wayne G share the decks to wind up Extreme Xmas Weekend. $30-$45 or as part of Extreme Xmas weekend pass $80-$129. 375 11th St. 6pm-12am. https://extremexmassf.com/
Kinky Kringle @ SF Eagle
The SF Eagle has reached deep into its sack to put on a hot Xmas show This is a sexy show filled with burlesque, comedy and drag. $5-$10 at door. 398 12th St. 8pm-11pm. www.sf-eagle.com
Nocturnal Extreme @ Halcyon SF
One of the Extreme Xmas Weekend SF events. The official afterhours of Extreme Xmas Weekend immediately following GPS: Imagina and Prime: Naughty or Nice. Ky Martinez offers a late night/early morning dance event. DJ Alex Acosta provides music. $30-$40 or as part of Extreme Xmas weekend pass $80-$129. 314 11th St. 3:30am-9:30am. https://extremexmassf.com/
Shimmer @ SF Eagle
Food, drink, jello shots, and a raffle all benefiting San Francisco Bay Area Rubber, a 501c3 nonprofit. $15 for beer/soda bust plus food, $5 for food only. 398 12th St. 3pm-6pm. www.sf-eagle.com
Mon 9
Blackout Party @ SF Catalyst
Feel and play around in the dark. Presented by the guys who bring you CumUnion. They'll be turning down the lights extra low and handing out glow-n-the-dark wrist bands at the door to light the way to play through dark areas. $20. 1060 Folsom St. 8pm-1am. www.sfcatalyst.org
Ride Mondays @ Eros
A motorcycle rider and leathermen night at Eros, bring your helmet, AMA card, MC club card or club colors and get $3 off entry or massage. 2051 Market St. www.erossf.com
Wed 11
Naked and Golden Shower Buddies @ Blow Buddies
A men's naked and water spots play night. $15 with membership. 933 Harrison St. 8pm. www.blowbuddies.com
Underwear Wednesday @ Eros
Show off your underwear or jock and get a $3 off coupon for a future visit. All day. 2051 Market St. www.erossf.com
Thu 12
Rope Burn SF: Holiday Edition @ SF Catalyst
Rope burn is a group dedicated to creating a safe space for those interested in learning the art of rope restraint, every third Thursday of the month. It's not a workshop but aimed to help people create connections and grow the queer rope community through sharing their knowledge and skills. They want this group to be a fun, sex-positive, relaxed, and informational space, open to all skill levels and sizes. $20 suggested donation. 1060 Folsom St. 7pm-10pm. www.ropeburnsf.com
Fri 13
Beards & Booze @ The Edge
This weekly happy hour event is for bearded guys and the beard fetishists who like them. 4149 18th St., 5pm. www.edgesf.com
Lick It @ Powerhouse
Come out and dance and play and have a taste of some sexy fun. DJ Blackstone brings you some soulful beats. No fancy dates. No unrealistic expectations. Just some good old downright dirty fun, where Licking it is only the beginning. Beneficiaries: Breast Cancer Emergency Fund. Sponsors: Mr. S Leather, 9x6Lubes Pure Silicone, w�fGear. $5 at door. 1347 Folsom St. 10pm-2am. www.powerhousebar.com
Sober Kink Together @ Castro Country Club
Officially a CMA meeting, but open to all Anonymous 12-step Fellowship members, 4058 18th St., 9:30pm. www.castrocountryclub.org
SubMission: Cocktails & Comedy @ The Armory Club
Weekly stand-up comedy show in the basement of the SF Armory Club; grab a craft cocktail from the bar upstairs and prepare for a night of laughter with the right amount of kink. Doors open at 6:30. $15, 1799 Mission St., Shows start at 7pm and 9pm (downstairs not wheelchair accessible). www.armoryclub.com
Sat 14
Fetish Flea @ SF Citadel
Think of this as your friendly neighborhood kinky shopping mall. Get all your gear in one place and support the artists in your local community. You'll see the best in new and tested kinky toys, implements of consensual torture, clothing, jewelry, information, etc. All genders, sexual orientations and dynamics are welcome. 181 Eddy St., 11am-5pm. www.sfcitadel.org
BLUF SF 2019 Holiday Dinner @ StrEat Food Park
Gear up and join BLUF SF to celebrate the 2019 holidays with their annual dinner. Join them in their own reserved wing of their Barn (sheltered and heated). Must reserve with required $5 EventBrite RSVP. Choose from among the StrEat Food Park's wide range of no-host food, wine and beer trucks. Then make your way over with us to the SF Eagle for BLUF SF's Leather Lounge. $5 (plus buy your own food). 428 11th St. 8pm-9pm. https://blufsf2019holidaydinner.eventbrite.com
Leather Lounge @ SF Citadel
BLUF SF hosts this monthly gathering of men so leathermen can gear up, grab a cigar, and socialize every 2nd Saturday of the month. $10. 398 12th St. 9pm-2am. www.blufsf.com
Sun 15
Holiday Men's Play Party @ Blow Buddies
With the end of the year fast approaching, The 15 Association offers you once last chance to get on Santa's naughty list. The unique venue creates a different vibe than their regular dungeon parties. Free. 933 Harrison St. 12pm-4pm. www.the15sf.org
Mon 16
Blackout Party @ SF Catalyst
Feel and play around in the dark. Presented by the guys who bring you CumUnion. They'll be turning down the lights extra low and handing out glow-n-the-dark wrist bands at the door to light the way to play through dark areas. $20. 1060 Folsom St. 8pm-1am. www.sfcatalyst.org
Ride Mondays @ Eros
A motorcycle rider and leathermen night at Eros, bring your helmet, AMA card, MC club card or club colors and get $3 off entry or massage. 2051 Market St. www.erossf.com
Wed 18
Ds Social Hour @ Wicked Grounds
A casual, coffeehouse munch for connecting with other people interested in consensual authority and control. Build community among others who share your passion for consensual power exchange. Share ideas and inspiration with your peers. Find support and acceptance for your power relationship or look for a partner with whom to create a relationship. 289 8th St. 7-9pm. www.wickedgrounds.com
Underwear Wednesday @ Eros
Show off your underwear or jock and get a $3 off coupon for a future visit. All day. 2051 Market St. www.erossf.com
Thu 19
SubMission: Cocktails & Comedy @ The Armory Club
Weekly stand-up comedy show in the basement of the SF Armory Club; grab a craft cocktail from the bar upstairs and prepare for a night of laughter with the right amount of kink. Doors open at 6:30. $15, 1799 Mission St., Shows start at 7pm and 9pm (downstairs not wheelchair accessible). www.armoryclub.com
Fri 20
Beards & Booze @ The Edge
This weekly happy hour event is for bearded guys and the beard fetishists who like them. 4149 18th St. 5pm. www.edgesf.com
Sober Kink Together @ Castro Country Club
Officially a CMA meeting, but open to all Anonymous 12-step Fellowship members, 4058 18th St. 9:30pm. www.castrocountryclub.org
SubMission: Cocktails & Comedy @ The Armory Club
Weekly stand-up comedy show in the basement of the SF Armory Club; grab a craft cocktail from the bar upstairs and prepare for a night of laughter with the right amount of kink. Doors open at 6:30. $15, 1799 Mission St., Shows start at 7pm and 9pm (downstairs not wheelchair accessible). www.armoryclub.com
Sun 22
ACLC Naughty or Nice Beer Bust @ SF Eagle
Join the Alameda County Leather Corps for their beer bust. Raffle prizes. $15 beer bust and food. $5 just food. 398 12th St. 3pm-6pm. www.acleather.org